107 get to know you questions for new friends, roommates, dates and small groups, sorted from light to deeper so you can start easy. Draw one at random or print the list.
Draw a question and give the first person a minute. Answers can be a word or a story.
For big groups and video calls, pick Quick questions and go around fast; for small groups, try Medium or Deeper.
Anyone can pass. A good icebreaker never puts someone on the spot.
All 107 questions
What's a small thing that made your week better
What's a skill you have that most people here probably don't know about
What's one thing you learned recently that surprised you
What's something you're getting better at this year
What's a kind of problem you love solving
What's a hobby that helps you at work in a surprising way
What's a job you've had that most people wouldn't guess
What's something you know a lot about that has nothing to do with your job
What's a job you'd love to try for just one day
What's one thing you're looking forward to this month
If you started a side business tomorrow, what would it be
What's the nicest thank-you note or message someone has sent you
What's your most useless talent
What's a weird food combination you secretly love
What would your reality TV show be called
What's the most ridiculous thing you've ever bought that you still love
What's the best prize you've ever won, even if it was tiny
What's the strangest compliment you've ever received
What's something you believed for way too long before finding out it wasn't true
If you came with a warning label, what would it say
What's a boring chore you secretly enjoy
What would your cooking show be called, and what's the signature dish
What's a story your friends always ask you to tell
What's a hobby you got really into and then dropped
What's something you're secretly very competitive about
What's the last thing that made you laugh out loud
Morning person or night owl
What's the last thing you ate that was really good
Beach, mountains, forest, or city: which one recharges you
What's your ultimate comfort food
What's your favorite board game, card game, or video game
Cats, dogs, or some other animal: which is your favorite
What's your favorite thing to do on a rainy day
What's a place you'd love to see someday
What's a small luxury that's totally worth it to you
What did you want to be when you were little
What's the best concert, play, or live show you've ever been to
What's a place that feels like home to you
What's a book you've recommended to people more than once
What's a skill you taught yourself
What's a tradition you've kept up for years
What's the most interesting thing about where you grew up
What's your favorite thing to make for other people
What's a hobby you'd love to try if you had the time
What's the best road trip, train ride, or long walk you've ever taken
What's a movie you think everyone should see
What's the most beautiful place you've ever been, even if it's close to home
Who's someone who taught you something you still use every day
What's your ideal day, from start to finish
What's a song that takes you right back to a specific time in your life
What's something you've made that you're proud of
What's a game you were really good at as a kid
What's your favorite thing about the town or city you live in now
What's the best meal you've ever had
What's a smell, taste, or sound that reminds you of being a kid
What's a topic you could talk about for an hour with no prep
What are three things on your bucket list
What's a fictional place you'd love to visit
What's your go-to order at a coffee shop or restaurant
What's a habit you're proud of building
What's something you collect, or used to collect
What's a question you love being asked
What's a language you'd love to speak, and why
What's your favorite way to spend time outside
What's something you've learned from a friend
What's a random fact you love telling people
What's your favorite way to unwind after a long day
What's the most adventurous thing you've ever done
What's a goal you're working toward right now
What's the kindest thing a stranger has ever done for you
Tell us about a moment you felt really proud of yourself
What's a nickname you've had (that you don't mind sharing), and how did you get it
If you could have dinner with any three people, living or historical, who would they be
What's the best thing you've ever found by accident
What's something people are often surprised to learn about you
What's a decision that turned out better than you expected
What's a place you've lived in or visited that surprised you
What's the most interesting conversation you've had with a stranger
What's a book you read in school that stuck with you
What's a piece of technology you can't imagine living without
What's something old-fashioned you still love
If you could ask your future self one question, what would it be
If you could become an expert in anything overnight, what would you choose
What's a rule you try to live by
What's something you've changed your mind about in the last few years
What's something you're curious about right now
What's the best story behind something you own
What's a hobby you think more people would love if they tried it
What's a place you'd take a visitor to show off your town
What's a tiny moment from this year you want to remember
What's something you do that makes an ordinary day feel special
Which fictional character do you relate to most
If you had a free weekend and all the supplies you needed, what would you make
What's a museum, park, or landmark you love
What would you do with an extra hour every day
What's the best "small world" coincidence that's ever happened to you
What's something you're good at
What's a food you didn't like at first but love now
What's something that makes you feel brave
What's something kind someone did for you this week
What's something you'd like to learn how to do this year
What's a holiday tradition you love, or one you'd like to start
What's the best gift you've ever given someone
What's your go-to dish to bring to a potluck
What's something you're grateful for this year
What's the coziest thing you own
What's the best homemade gift you've ever received
Questions
What is a good icebreaker question?
One anyone can answer in under a minute without feeling exposed, but that still gets a specific answer: a place, a story, a name. “What’s the best thing you ate this week?” beats “What do you like to eat?”
Which questions work for work meetings?
The Work questions avoid family, age, money, health, religion and politics, so they are safe for a new team. Quick questions suit big meetings and video calls.
Can I use these in class?
Yes. The Kids category is written for ages 6 to 12 and never assumes anything about a child’s family. Put the picker full screen on the board.