Get to Know You Questions

107 get to know you questions for new friends, roommates, dates and small groups, sorted from light to deeper so you can start easy. Draw one at random or print the list.

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107 questions

Icebreaker
What's a small thing that made your week better

How to play

  1. Draw a question and give the first person a minute. Answers can be a word or a story.
  2. For big groups and video calls, pick Quick questions and go around fast; for small groups, try Medium or Deeper.
  3. Anyone can pass. A good icebreaker never puts someone on the spot.

All 107 questions

  1. What's a small thing that made your week better
  2. What's a skill you have that most people here probably don't know about
  3. What's one thing you learned recently that surprised you
  4. What's something you're getting better at this year
  5. What's a kind of problem you love solving
  6. What's a hobby that helps you at work in a surprising way
  7. What's a job you've had that most people wouldn't guess
  8. What's something you know a lot about that has nothing to do with your job
  9. What's a job you'd love to try for just one day
  10. What's one thing you're looking forward to this month
  11. If you started a side business tomorrow, what would it be
  12. What's the nicest thank-you note or message someone has sent you
  13. What's your most useless talent
  14. What's a weird food combination you secretly love
  15. What would your reality TV show be called
  16. What's the most ridiculous thing you've ever bought that you still love
  17. What's the best prize you've ever won, even if it was tiny
  18. What's the strangest compliment you've ever received
  19. What's something you believed for way too long before finding out it wasn't true
  20. If you came with a warning label, what would it say
  21. What's a boring chore you secretly enjoy
  22. What would your cooking show be called, and what's the signature dish
  23. What's a story your friends always ask you to tell
  24. What's a hobby you got really into and then dropped
  25. What's something you're secretly very competitive about
  26. What's the last thing that made you laugh out loud
  27. Morning person or night owl
  28. What's the last thing you ate that was really good
  29. Beach, mountains, forest, or city: which one recharges you
  30. What's your ultimate comfort food
  31. What's your favorite board game, card game, or video game
  32. Cats, dogs, or some other animal: which is your favorite
  33. What's your favorite thing to do on a rainy day
  34. What's a place you'd love to see someday
  35. What's a small luxury that's totally worth it to you
  36. What did you want to be when you were little
  37. What's the best concert, play, or live show you've ever been to
  38. What's a place that feels like home to you
  39. What's a book you've recommended to people more than once
  40. What's a skill you taught yourself
  41. What's a tradition you've kept up for years
  42. What's the most interesting thing about where you grew up
  43. What's your favorite thing to make for other people
  44. What's a hobby you'd love to try if you had the time
  45. What's the best road trip, train ride, or long walk you've ever taken
  46. What's a movie you think everyone should see
  47. What's the most beautiful place you've ever been, even if it's close to home
  48. Who's someone who taught you something you still use every day
  49. What's your ideal day, from start to finish
  50. What's a song that takes you right back to a specific time in your life
  51. What's something you've made that you're proud of
  52. What's a game you were really good at as a kid
  53. What's your favorite thing about the town or city you live in now
  54. What's the best meal you've ever had
  55. What's a smell, taste, or sound that reminds you of being a kid
  56. What's a topic you could talk about for an hour with no prep
  57. What are three things on your bucket list
  58. What's a fictional place you'd love to visit
  59. What's your go-to order at a coffee shop or restaurant
  60. What's a habit you're proud of building
  61. What's something you collect, or used to collect
  62. What's a question you love being asked
  63. What's a language you'd love to speak, and why
  64. What's your favorite way to spend time outside
  65. What's something you've learned from a friend
  66. What's a random fact you love telling people
  67. What's your favorite way to unwind after a long day
  68. What's the most adventurous thing you've ever done
  69. What's a goal you're working toward right now
  70. What's the kindest thing a stranger has ever done for you
  71. Tell us about a moment you felt really proud of yourself
  72. What's a nickname you've had (that you don't mind sharing), and how did you get it
  73. If you could have dinner with any three people, living or historical, who would they be
  74. What's the best thing you've ever found by accident
  75. What's something people are often surprised to learn about you
  76. What's a decision that turned out better than you expected
  77. What's a place you've lived in or visited that surprised you
  78. What's the most interesting conversation you've had with a stranger
  79. What's a book you read in school that stuck with you
  80. What's a piece of technology you can't imagine living without
  81. What's something old-fashioned you still love
  82. If you could ask your future self one question, what would it be
  83. If you could become an expert in anything overnight, what would you choose
  84. What's a rule you try to live by
  85. What's something you've changed your mind about in the last few years
  86. What's something you're curious about right now
  87. What's the best story behind something you own
  88. What's a hobby you think more people would love if they tried it
  89. What's a place you'd take a visitor to show off your town
  90. What's a tiny moment from this year you want to remember
  91. What's something you do that makes an ordinary day feel special
  92. Which fictional character do you relate to most
  93. If you had a free weekend and all the supplies you needed, what would you make
  94. What's a museum, park, or landmark you love
  95. What would you do with an extra hour every day
  96. What's the best "small world" coincidence that's ever happened to you
  97. What's something you're good at
  98. What's a food you didn't like at first but love now
  99. What's something that makes you feel brave
  100. What's something kind someone did for you this week
  101. What's something you'd like to learn how to do this year
  102. What's a holiday tradition you love, or one you'd like to start
  103. What's the best gift you've ever given someone
  104. What's your go-to dish to bring to a potluck
  105. What's something you're grateful for this year
  106. What's the coziest thing you own
  107. What's the best homemade gift you've ever received

Questions

What is a good icebreaker question?

One anyone can answer in under a minute without feeling exposed, but that still gets a specific answer: a place, a story, a name. “What’s the best thing you ate this week?” beats “What do you like to eat?”

Which questions work for work meetings?

The Work questions avoid family, age, money, health, religion and politics, so they are safe for a new team. Quick questions suit big meetings and video calls.

Can I use these in class?

Yes. The Kids category is written for ages 6 to 12 and never assumes anything about a child’s family. Put the picker full screen on the board.

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